Saturday, August 28, 2010

The Invasion of ET -- The End


If you can recall my first posting on the ET article, I have come to the conclusion of my resolution that I made that fateful early morning.   Finally!  At lastWhat a relief to be able to throw away all the burden on your shoulder that have been there for how long you could not remember anymore.  The road to this final destination has been a long one people.  You cannot imagine how much energy time and materials were consumed to get to this end.  Focus is the element to help you in getting to your target point.  Apart from your own best behavior and good judgment.  Patience and  all the help that you can get from your closed friends and family members are another factor in you having a success in eliminating the relevant ET.  Eliminate! Stop cruelty to humanity and love!

The gist is to leave behind all bad auras that surround you.  You must open up your own positive and bright aura to enable you to move on ahead to the new you and the new world.
Be brave people.  The world is too beautiful to be left unexplored. 

You may want to go to Timbuktu and enjoy the beautiful scenery under the scorching sun.  You might find treasures there.  If it is destined to be people, it will be. 

We Found Love

I can't help myself over Paul Anka's song - Let Me Get To Know You -  so romantic and makes your heart melts.  If only the love of your life will dedicate it to you, I am sure it will make your day for the rest of the month, yes?! 

Okay, this is the part where I loved the most - love love love, we found love, together in each other , we found love....- don't you think the wordings simply beautiful.  Blissful feelings to be showered with love with this song at the background.... 

Isn't life beautiful ?

The Golden Trophy

I am feeling the blues today folks.  I just couldn't put my finger at what is it that I am looking for and why I am looking for it.  I am playing the mental game today.  To please myself perhaps.  Or, to hide away from the reality of the harsh and cruel world around me.  Wishing that the sunshine will blind my eyesight so that I don't have to see the view that I hate to see. The thing is, I am always wishing and wishing and hoping and hoping for the one matter that I have been dreaming of, all of my life. Yup, can see it now.  There it is, the golden trophy of my heart.

What exactly is that? The Golden Trophy?  That will be the love of your life, your soul mate, the one that you have been looking for to walk with you in the fields of gold.  Yes folks, LOVE again.  Come on people, essentially Love is what made this world goes around.  You simply cannot deny the gravity of importance that word Love brings.  Its everywhere in life.  Particularly, a paramount element in your marriage life.   

Question again?  What if your spouse is not your soul mate?  Just another he and she, you know the ordinary kind of relationship.  Good if you can define the type of relationship that you are in right now.  It will help you in focusing on the next step to do i.e. how to make your life with your spouse more meaningful and contain more love.  The answer is, work on it people.  Work to make your marriage life a better living space and time for both of you.  Do not stop working.  Continue working on it while both of you are at it.  If however, only one party is working towards making the marriage a blissfully happy and loving kind of world, time to think again has come.  Do your bits.  Make it work again.  And, if you are tired of working all alone, find a way out.

As for me, it seems like I have found my golden trophy.  The journey has begun for me to take it and hold it in my arms as tightly as I can.  I'm out of the blue now.

Happy Golden Day people.

The Rapids

There are times when things just get entangled with each other until it become so messed-up its just impossible to be straightened anymore.  Its when you are deep in  a serious crisis.  You have reached the rapids in your river of life.  Things just move at ultra pace with many danger zones at every corner you go.  The situation will get nasty if you were ambushed by your enemy.  The only solution is to find your way out, fast.

When you are working to re-build a marriage that has come to the stage of irretrievable situation, the rapids situation will be the environment for you to face.  But, steadfast is the keyword here.  Be sure of your own strength, continue moving forward and do not turn back.  The ultimate goal is to achieve peaceful resolution to the crisis and the irretrievable marriage issue in the most amicable way possible.  A broken marriage is the ultimate situation where finalization of the determination of the marriage is the consideration for all concerns.  Is this the part where marriage is built?  Yes. Your new marriage.  If you are on for it.

Alright, you may be thinking and ask these questions "but isn't this blog about building a marriage? Whats this talk about crisis and determination of a marriage?  Sounds like destroying to me."   Well, you are absolutely right!  There are times people where the building that you have built has some defective works in it.  Building built not following the standard specifications of the builders and the quantity surveyors have confirmed these building defects.  And, from the professional findings, your building is no longer safe for human habitation. What are you to do? Continue living in that building when it is no longer safe to do so.  And continue to be stubborn just because your ego is bigger than your brain even though your life is in danger?  Decision and decision must be made for the sake of your safety and the safety of your loved ones. Split and let go.  Go easy on your ego.  Keep your self dignity but let go your arrogance.  It is the beginning of the end.  The end must prevail in this situation.  Did I mention 'destroy' at my home page?  You need to destroy bad karma in order to possess good karma.  Think positive.  If your spouse is not health hazardous to you, mentally and physically, perhaps, you may opt to continue living your life with him-her.  If the situation is the other way around, the exit is the only avenue to consider.

You do not want to get stuck in the rapids longer than you should.  Its a danger zone.  Get out while you can.

Friday, August 27, 2010

So what....?

Yes, you will want to ask that kind of question once in  a while.  Right?  You know people, others would always want to question you whether what you have done is right or wrong, whether what  road you want to take is what you really want or  really need at this moment, whether you have think things over carefully and holistically, whether this is what you really wanted, whether you have think about all others around your life before you take that leap in your life.  These may be regarded as the well intention questions by those who are concerned with you.  Still, what is it that matters to you, people?  Grown-ups are supposed to know what they are doing, why they are doing it and for what objective, right?

These questions will leave you thinking for days on end. And for what?  Exhaustion on end, I would say.  Well, perhaps one should adopt the attitude of a wise old woman then, do your thinking for few days people and thereafter, make your so-called wise decision on any matter that is of importance to you.   Forget about the rest, if you must.  Things got to move on people.  You can't stay stagnant forever.  And, if they still question your move, just say, "So what?"  Savvy.