I have a piece of advice to those pairs of couple who are still living in a marital bonding, please mind your words to your spouse. I want to particularly advice the husband folks. Be kind to your wife, will you. Ill words hurt. Hurt the heart and the mind. Ill words will decay the love thermometer of your wife. Ill words uttered in the midst of a quarrel will germinate ill faith in your wife's heart and mind. To be exact, bad words coming from a bad mouth are elements for the germination of a disastrous husband-wife relationship! Do you understand what I am saying here, husband folks? Oh yes, this article is specifically addressed to the married male kinds. Why? Because you, married men folks, love to abuse your wife verbally whenever the situation suits you. Of course I am talking about facts. And facts do not lie. I will not go into the details but, please bear in mind, ill words are tantamount to mental abuse. And mental abuse is one legal reason to file a divorce. Why spend all good energy to destroy something you have built? Yes? Besides, ill words are like killing-it-softly that affection your wife has over you. Why kill, men folks? Why built then kill. Why built then destroy?
Embrace kindness and gentleness. Guide not patronize.